we have an emergency situation developing in little rock arkansas.
if you are nearby.
and are familiar enough with the blood policy and willing to help, please contact.
We have an emergency situation developing in Little Rock Arkansas. If you are nearby
and are familiar enough with the blood policy and willing to help, please contact
me asap. Perhaps we can help save the life of a young JW who needs surgery
to repair his Aorta.
Thanks,
Lee
ethics panel discusses blood policy of watchtower bible & tract society and jehovah's witnesses refusing lifesaving treatment .
the oncologist journal of august 2002 contains an interesting discussion between a panel of medical professionals on the subject of jehovah's witnesses refusing blood therapies.. this article focuses on a witness woman who refused some blood therapies but was convinced by her congregation elders that it was okay to accept bovine hemoglobin therapy.
realizing the glaring inconsistency of bovine hemoglobin being acceptable in the face of prohibiting other blood therapies like red cell infusion, one physician said,.
This nurse has a very good feel for the role of elders in the hospital. Quoting a paragraph from the article:
"Another important aspect of this case had to do with the congregationand the elders. They would come in, especially during her lastadmission, to visit her. We felt like they were checking upon her. They would come in to watch and to ask questions andto see what we were doing and to see what we were hanging. Ifwe went in and hung the bovine hemoglobin while they were there,she would say to them, "This isnt blood." She would haveto clarify what was being hung. We felt like we were being watchedto make sure that we were doing the right thing according totheir beliefs. When she went to the MICU, there was always someonethere, watching to make sure that no one would hang blood. Therewas a lack of trust. "
on friday night i watched a report by abc tv's john stossel (in the normal 20/20 time slot) that dealt with how humans are influenced by looks.
it was a re-broadcast, and even though this was the second time i've seen it it was still fascinating.
to demonstrate whether we are influenced by appearance, several scenarios were set up, involving people considered attractive and those considered more 'plain'.
Very interesting thread. I think we are naturally drawn to what is beautiful whether
we happen to be aware of it or not. I'm 6'2" and an average looking man but ended
up with a gorgeous wife. In fact, my friends are all good looking too. Luck of the draw
I suppose. I think JW men have a larger pool to select from then the average non dub.
One of our good looking female friends made an interesting point. She thinks that
one of the downsides to being very attractive is that it intimidates others at times
which can making forming relationships more challenging - probably especially
true in same sex friendships.
As a JW youngster I didn't give a hoot about looks - JW culture. Dress and grooming
were always a priority. However, when I met the lovely creature that was to become
my wife, she was so beautiful I fell in love when I laid eyes on her.
Lee
i was thinking today ( as i have many times) of those days in the jw world.
over and over i now find it incredible that i could have thought that shunning was "good", that the door to door work was "productive", that to plan on allowing my child to die rather than to take blood was "god's will", that "worldly" people cannot know god, etc.
etc.. it all seemed right, it all seemed good, it all seemed god approved.
Unfortunately, we are always making choices with limited information. We do the best we can.
I think its important to educate yourself and consider both sides of an issue. Something JWs
rarely do. It's also not a bad idea to maintain a healthy dose of skepticism - it will serve you well
most of the time.
Lee
there are so many horror stories about elders.
many people dislike or can't stand elders, in general.
a number here have been truly hurt by some.
I've seen elders run the whole spectrum from being extremely helpful, kind and resourceful to others who were mean spirited and stupid. In my view, the trend strongly favors the latter description.
Lee
in october of 2000, i faded away from the watchtower.
like most people, i have family and friends who are jw's (including my wife and parents).
fading is generally the best method for people in that situation.
Yours is a very good description of a properly executed fade. Moving to a new congregation, combined with "poor health" and/or being
"stumbled" over some issue (just watch for an opportunity - mean spirited, stupid elders are always providing them) is the perfect recipe to disappear. Building the proper foundation in advance is essential. Extracting family members and friends is complex and risky. I had a fair amount of success but it was not easy and came close to backfiring several times - primarily when ones I assisted getting out tried to get others out and mentioned my name. I don't see much to be gained by formerly disassociating oneself.
Lee
i knocked on the locked door of the appeal hearing last night after they had dismissed bill and told the six elders that i had something to say to them and told them it was summed up it a letter i had written.i then asked them if i could read it to them and they could have their own copy when i was finished.they said that would be fine.. here it is.
governing body,.
25 columbia heights.
Hi Sheila,
That is one terrific letter. Kudos!
Lee
in view of the fact that bill bowen and others who have supported the silentlambs agenda have been disfellowshipped, do you think this means the end of their effectiveness?
comments on the board suggest that now, jw's won't come forward to bill because witnesses won't want to talk to a disfellowshipped person.
and some have said that this was the reason why they were fighting their disfellowshipping.
I believe that abuse victims looking for support are already pretty disillusioned by their WT experience. Most of them will not be greatly concerned that the Silent Lambs folks are disfellowshipped "former" JWs.
Lee
personally, i do not believe god ever has or ever will exist.
i have my reasons -- i guess i could be considered an agnostic, rather than an athiest.
i was curious to see what the larger part of the former borg community believed, now looking from the outside in, rather than the opposite.
Do you believe in God? Its an intriguing question but perhaps the wrong question. Without some reliable context or basis to define what God is, the question is somewhat meaningless. Roughly equivalent to: Do you believe it _ _ _ ? (Fill in any three letters).
If by your question you mean do I believe in the God of the Bible my answer would have to be no. That God is the invention of the ancient Hebrews and a compilation of various ancient tribal entities. As for my personal belief, I am a Fideist and also consider myself a liberal Christian.
Lee
its late and i am tired but i'm kinda stirred up.
i forgot it could get like this.
i left the religion behind and its fine really - nicely in the past - of course i got issues and i get angry sometimes but i left it all behind - all the friends.
It may well be that its impossible to maintain a meaningful relationship with a JW
in your situation. We are only human.
